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🤔SP-8 What Life Should Mean To You. Four points I understood from Alfred Adler.

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What Life Should Mean To You. Four points I understood from Alfred Adler.

1) In childhood, when basic bricks were being formed in our toddler brain, we saw that every one else in the world is bigger and stronger than us. Then we learned that we have to weep or to do something funny to attract attention, love and food. Our life tracks were then formed. We developed a) Striving for being Superior and Stronger than others b) We developed constant Striving for Recognition by others.

2) In Life, we should first develop roots (earning resources) at place where we are born or live.

3) Secondly, we should develop a stable and loved family. This is a psychological cum biological drive or need.

4) Thirdly, we should have balance in our social circle and life.

As per Alfred Adler, any disturbance in 2,3,4 leads to unrest and psychological problems in life of an Individual.

If we go in excess on point 1, we suffer perils and rejections by world. This point has to be pursued mildly, preferably in a concealed way in order to avoid troubles from the world.

Now try to check these points in real life around you. Try to check your own strivings and struggle in life.

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One thing which pains in heart of every law student, lawyer and Judge :- Whenever a politician brazenly breaks order of court or verbally attacks courts, his political popularity increases and he..

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One thing which pains in heart of every law student, lawyer and Judge :- Whenever a politician brazenly breaks order of court or verbally attacks courts, his political popularity increases and he is soon elected with majority votes by people.

An Analysis : This shows that 1) there is deep resentment towards courts, lawyers and judges in heart of people 2) but they do not speak against courts, lawyers and judges because of fear of contempt of court laws.

Two Suggested solutions :

(1) Resentment in heart of people cannot be removed by logic or by force. Rohde Island Judge Frank Caprio has shown a way. Search on You Tube “Rohde Island Judge” and you will see a series of videos which have gone viral on social media. Each video has effect of removing resentment from heart of people. If such videos are made in India, they can remove resentment of people.

(2) Recently a Gujarat court punished three politicians that for one month, they will keep sweeping local civil hospital. And at their expanses complete video of their sweeping will be made. A CD of these video shall be daily deposited in evening with Civil Surgeon of Hospital.

I believe that such measures can remove resentment from heart of people of India.